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Docility may survive as a lazy habit long after it has ceased to
be a beneficial instinct. If you catch a child when it is young enough to be instinctively
docile, and keep it in a condition of unremitted tutelage under the nurserymaid, the
governess, the preparatory school, the secondary school, and the university, until it is
an adult, you will produce, not a self-reliant, free, fully matured human being, but a
grown-up schoolboy or schoolgirl, capable of nothing in the way of original or independent
action except outbursts of naughtiness in the women and blackguardism in the men. That is
exactly what we get at present in our rich and consequently governing classes: they pass
from juvenility to senility without ever touching maturity except in body. The classes
which cannot afford this sustained tutelage are notably more self-reliant and grown-up: an
office boy of fifteen is often more of a man than a university student of twenty.
Unfortunately this precocity is disabled by poverty, ignorance, narrowness, and a hideous
power of living without art or love or beauty and being rather proud of it. The poor never
escape from servitude: their docility is preserved by their slavery. And so all become the
prey of the greedy, the selfish, the domineering, the unscrupulous, the predatory. If here
and there an individual refuses to be docile, ten docile persons will beat him or lock him
up or shoot him or hang him at the bidding of his oppressors and their own. The crux of
the whole difficulty about parents, schoolmasters, priests, absolute monarchs, and despots
of every sort, is the tendency to abuse natural docility. A nation should always be
healthily rebellious; but the king or prime minister has yet to be found who will make
trouble by cultivating that side of the national spirit. A child should begin to assert
itself early, and shift for itself more and more not only in washing and dressing itself,
but in opinions and conduct; yet as nothing is so exasperating and so unlovable as an
uppish child, it is useless to expect parents and schoolmasters to inculcate this
uppishness. Such unamiable precepts as Always contradict an authoritative statement,
Always return a blow, Never lose a chance of a good fight, When you are scolded for a
mistake ask the person who scolds you whether he or she supposes you did it on purpose,
and follow the question with a blow or an insult or some other unmistakable expression of
resentment, Remember that the progress of the world depends on your knowing better than
your elders, are just as important as those of The Sermon on the Mount; but no one has yet
seen them written up in letters of gold in a schoolroom or nursery. The child is taught to
be kind, to be respectful, to be quiet, not to answer back, to be truthful when its elders
want to find out anything from it, to lie when the truth would shock or hurt its elders,
to be above all things obedient, and to be seen and not heard. Here we have two sets of
precepts, each warranted to spoil a child hopelessly if the other be omitted.
Unfortunately we do not allow fair play between them. The rebellious, intractable,
aggressive, selfish set provoke a corrective resistance, and do not pretend to high moral
or religious sanctions; and they are never urged by grown-up people on young people. They
are therefore more in danger of neglect or suppression than the other set, which have all
the adults, all the laws, all the religions on their side. How is the child to be secured
its due share of both bodies of doctrine? |
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